Lots of People revolve around this question. What is the right age to get married? So what's your Opinion please do Comment below.
Normally people used to get married at the age of 9 to 11 at our grandparent's era. But now this system is not into existence. Gradually age of getting married start to increase and people start getting married at the age of 18 to 21. This lateness is increasing day by day and people are getting married in high age. Today I am going to explore my experience as a founder of Bihebari Marriage Bureau what will be the right age for marriage.
We belong to Hindu Society let's say Nepali Society. A boy gets his education up to age of 21-25 After educational qualification he has pressure to search for a better job so that he can look after family. But in case of a girl, she is not prohibited for education rather she is also not in any kind of pressure that she should look after the family and get a better job. A boy will marry her, and he will look after her that's what our Nepali Society has made assumptions regarding a boy and a girl.
When we start taking about marriage then come the subject of reproduction as well. If our reproductive organs are not matured enough to give birth only after the age of 20. So, there was slogan in Nepali Society "Bihebari bis barsh pari" i.e. "विहेवारी २० वर्ष पारी". Which states that marriage should be done only when you are above 20. Many doctors and Researchers also tell us that both girl and boy should get married within 21-30 age. Moreover, in case of girls if a girl gives birth to her child withing the age gap of 21-30 that's the best age, increase in age decreases the fertility rate says the expert. To some extent same case is true for boys as well.
As per my experience some people are getting married at the age of 21, 25, 30, 35, whereas some at the age of 28, 48, 68. Yes, reproduction case may affect but the main thing is your happiness and your well-being. You should be above 20 to get married is the primary factor whereas in Secondary Factor you have to be independent as well as you should be well prepared both mentally and physically in order to get married. If you aren't prepared well then, your life after marriage will be me more complicated. So, this is the right age or right time to get married.
