Does Looks Matters in Marriage Life? Bihebari Experience Revealed.

Garima's Parents were searching for a good life partner to her daughter. It was an arrange marriage. So, parents had finalized a guy. But the guy didn't accept her because she was average in looks. She was really disappointed by the incident. Since she was struggling for her better job in her life. Boy's rejection made her loose her confidence. But she focused on her career, and she got opportunity in USA and got citizenship over there.

Later on, that guys parents find out her progress. They came to visit her with lots of apologies they again asked Garima's hand for their son. To my Suprise girl accept the proposal. 

This incident made me feel that looks doesn't matter but success, money do matters. 

Similarly, some people say that it's pointless.

Some beautiful girls are getting married to not so attractive men but still they are happy in their life. 

some say that my uncle is tall, handsome but he is married to dark, uglier girl and still they are happy. 

Ravi shares his experience with us

I am handsome guy and I earn more than Rs. 150K per month. I was looking for suitable life partner for me and it was totally arranged marriage. What I found is that all girl who look beautiful are full of demands like good house, guy should have good family background, no kinds of loans and so on. This incident made me to see girls with hated point of view. One of another findings is that these types of girls and their parents are searching for a guy who is well settled at the age of 28, and that is not possible, I guess. 

Then I met a girl with Average looks. She was very positive and ready to accept all my middle-class conditions. She told me that it our new relationship and we have to grow it together. I am ready to face all the situations and difficulties with you. At first, I was a bit disappointed why that earlier girls aren't like her. I got married with her. 

These days I earn Rs 170K per months whereas she earns Rs85K per month. We are listening to one another's problem and growing up together in happiness. And this is what we all need in life, I think. 

Main theme is looks doesn't matter much these days. What they look is for long run future security like age, family wealth etc. Especially many girls look for 2-3 years of age gap, and they reject lots of decent, well educated, rich boys even they find their future to be secured.