When your attitude is negative how can any one find positiveness on you. You never look the things positively. I remember a quote-"person sees the object not as the object is but sees the object as he/she is". I read a book with example of negative thought and example goes like this.
For the first time a person created a steam engine ship. Negative thinker criticized it won't run. They were looking at the ship. When the ship started to run they criticized it won't stop. Such people are only in the aim to criticized and they can't do anything creative but they can create lots of ideas just to criticize.
It's very hard to deal with such kind of persons. My boss is also of same kind. He never praise for the work we have done. He always searches for our mistakes in order to scolds us. If we want to find the mistakes in any one then its very easy to find but if we find that mistakes and suggest him/her to correct by praising his/her works he/she would definately make improvement in their work.
Another thing is I can neither change my boss nor my job but the thing I change is myself so I am trying to be positive. My friend suggested me that Spending time with such kind of person is waste of time. But I am not wasting my time I am experiencing how to treat with such kind of person so that again in future if I met such kind of person I can deal with him/her easily. Life teaches us many thing in many ways. I learned that we should take our work or any thing in such way that we can enjoy from it. Our work is also done and feeling of bore also doesn't last long.
For the first time a person created a steam engine ship. Negative thinker criticized it won't run. They were looking at the ship. When the ship started to run they criticized it won't stop. Such people are only in the aim to criticized and they can't do anything creative but they can create lots of ideas just to criticize.
It's very hard to deal with such kind of persons. My boss is also of same kind. He never praise for the work we have done. He always searches for our mistakes in order to scolds us. If we want to find the mistakes in any one then its very easy to find but if we find that mistakes and suggest him/her to correct by praising his/her works he/she would definately make improvement in their work.
Another thing is I can neither change my boss nor my job but the thing I change is myself so I am trying to be positive. My friend suggested me that Spending time with such kind of person is waste of time. But I am not wasting my time I am experiencing how to treat with such kind of person so that again in future if I met such kind of person I can deal with him/her easily. Life teaches us many thing in many ways. I learned that we should take our work or any thing in such way that we can enjoy from it. Our work is also done and feeling of bore also doesn't last long.
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