As usual I went to office. Today its Monday and I will be busy this day. While I was working I saw a newspaper named HIMAL and it was a fresh copy. At first I thought of just to look at the headlines but when my eyes caught a article of old people I started reading. I went on reading and found out that today's generation is forgetting their duties towards parents. Nepalese society is upgrading from joint family to single family. In this scenario old parents are thrown out whereas the children are being hunted by lonliness.
Life is a cycle of birth to death. There are different phases, child, adult, man and old age. Parents give birth to us and spend their whole life to bring us up. We are forgetting our duties towards them. I read an example. An old person name Shambhu Prasad Acharaya (74) spend all his life for improvement of the children. The loan he has taken for the marriage ceremony of his children he cleared it from his retired money. His son convinced him to buy a new house by selling the old one but they bought only land and house hasn't been built yet. If they built house they have to keep their parents so they aren't building house.
From above example we can know parent in the old age are being burden. Are they really burden? If we don't care them who will care them?
Our parents gives birth to us. They help us to grow up. After certain time we also give birth to child. If we treat our parents negatively the child also grabs the same kind of tradition. In such condition how can we except a good response from our child as we have shown them our response towards our parents. They will catch the trend how to treat the old age parents in the same way we are treating our parents now. In future, in our old age if we want to be treated nicely we have to treat our parents nicely now.
Our parents are experienced than us. When they are at house although they cannot do any hard work they can give the child moral lesson and help them develop their habits. The children shouldn't face the problem of loneliness as they will be touch with their grand parents. Grand parents will be there to look after them.
There has bee a drastic change in life style of Nepalease Society. Today's generation doesn't want to take care of the old parents. Both the husband and wife works there is no time for parents. They don't have enough time to look after their children so they leave their children to the kinder garden school and go to work. If we don't take out some of our time towards our family there occurs a big gap and we shouldn't make such gap. Old parents are our heritage. We should respect them preserve them.
Life is a cycle of birth to death. There are different phases, child, adult, man and old age. Parents give birth to us and spend their whole life to bring us up. We are forgetting our duties towards them. I read an example. An old person name Shambhu Prasad Acharaya (74) spend all his life for improvement of the children. The loan he has taken for the marriage ceremony of his children he cleared it from his retired money. His son convinced him to buy a new house by selling the old one but they bought only land and house hasn't been built yet. If they built house they have to keep their parents so they aren't building house.
From above example we can know parent in the old age are being burden. Are they really burden? If we don't care them who will care them?
Our parents gives birth to us. They help us to grow up. After certain time we also give birth to child. If we treat our parents negatively the child also grabs the same kind of tradition. In such condition how can we except a good response from our child as we have shown them our response towards our parents. They will catch the trend how to treat the old age parents in the same way we are treating our parents now. In future, in our old age if we want to be treated nicely we have to treat our parents nicely now.
Our parents are experienced than us. When they are at house although they cannot do any hard work they can give the child moral lesson and help them develop their habits. The children shouldn't face the problem of loneliness as they will be touch with their grand parents. Grand parents will be there to look after them.
There has bee a drastic change in life style of Nepalease Society. Today's generation doesn't want to take care of the old parents. Both the husband and wife works there is no time for parents. They don't have enough time to look after their children so they leave their children to the kinder garden school and go to work. If we don't take out some of our time towards our family there occurs a big gap and we shouldn't make such gap. Old parents are our heritage. We should respect them preserve them.
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