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Sunday, August 31, 2014

Sex and Money

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They are connected. Money is power; hence it can be used in many ways. It can purchase sex, and down the ages that has been the case. Kings have been keeping thousands of wives. Just in this century, just thirty years ago, forty years ago the nizam of Hyderabad had five hundred wives. 
It is said that Krishna had sixteen hundred wives. I used to think that this was too much but when I came to know that the nizam of Hyderabad had five hundred wives just forty years ago then it doesn't seems too much-only thirty two times more! it seems humanly possible. If you can manage five hundred wives, why not sixteen hundred?
Money is power and power can purchase anything. So, you are not wrong that there is some connection between sex and money. 
One thing more has to be understood. The person who represses sex becomes more money minded, because money becomes a substitute for sex. Money becomes his love. See the greedy person, the money maniac: the way he touches hundred rupee notes- he touches them as if he is caressing his beloved; the way he looks at gold, look at his eyes-so romantic. 
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Sex can be diverted in many ways. It can become anger if repressed. Hence the soldier has to be deprived of sex, so that the sex energy becomes his anger, his irritation, his destructiveness so he can be more violent than he ever was. Sex can be diverted into ambition. Represses sex: once sex is repressed, you have energy available, you can channel it into any direction.
People are after money in the hope that when they have more money the can have more sex. 

Remember one thing: your life will remain empty if you know only things which can be purchased, if you know only things which can be sold. Your life will remain utterly futile if your acquaintance is only with commodities. Become acquainted with thing which cannot be purchased and cannot be sold-then for the first time you start growing wings, for the first time you start soaring high.

OSHO

Saturday, August 30, 2014

Not Learning Burning

As I early stated Learning is Earning now I like to say Not Learning Burning. You may be confused how or why burning. In our every step we are learning. From our infant stage we are learning as this process continues unless we are at the end. The first thing we learn is to smile. After smiling we learn to speak, we learn to walk, we learn to be creative and we use our mind. If we don't learn we can't run our life. Learning is necessary in every field. 
If I don't want to learn it burning for me. Its burning because the other people who are with me start to learn and I will be where I left my self from learning. They will go on improving and when I see them with their progress then I feel burning. If I have also learnt at that time I would go far more better than them. So learning is like compulsion. This or that, Who or What, why or how you have to learn in any way. If not learn the same learning becomes burning. And Burning hurts. 
As we see the burning wood converts into the coal we will also become the same coal. When I wake up early in the morning from that time I start learning. Its 21st century and the world is globalizing day by day if we don't make ourselves up to date then the loss is for us not for others. I have seen most of my friends regretting. That mean they are burning. Life is full of struggles and each struggles shows us the better way to improve. If we are able to catch that mistakes we would improve otherwise we will be burning throughout our life. 

Nepal Rich in Natural Beauty



We are very proud to be Nepali. Nepali are reach not only in cultures only they are rich in natural beauty.
I have got some pictures of Gosaikunda as well as Pathivara. Nature has given us everything it is us who are not able to utilize it. May tourist come here to visit or lets say for trekking to Goasikunda and Pathivara. Gosaikunad means the Pond in Nepali language. According to our religion the god shiva came here as he drank the poison that came in the process of making Elixir. He cannot tolerate the power of poison so in order to make him comfortable he with his weapon Trishul hit the hill and water came from there and from that time the place is called as Goisakunda. 
It is a very holy place in Nepali. It is one of the Pilgrims many visitors both internal and external come here.
It is situated at 4,380 m of height from sea level. As well as it falls under Rasuwa district Lantang National Park. 

Friday, August 29, 2014

Review of nepali film UTSAV

Produced By: Shekhar Koirala
Directed By: Kumar Bhattarai
Actors: Saugat Mall, Gaurav Pathari, Sanjog Koirala,             Sandip Chettri, Meuka Pradhan and Prakriti                Shrestha 
According to the meaning of word UTSAV (उत्सव) means that on the occasion of. By seeing the movie trailer it is trying to show on what occasion they are celebrating. It also states that on the occasion of friendship it is being celebrated. Various character are shown here. All of them have their own aim in life. All of us have to face various problem in our life to reach our goals so the characters are also in the same way. They are facing various difficulties to reach their destination. By seeing the trailer; Direction of movie by Kumar Bhattarai is satisfactory. Saugat Mall, Gaurav Pathari, Sanjog Koirala, Sandip Chettri, Meuka Pradhan and Prakriti Shrestha their performance is good. Importance of friend and how they betray with selfishness can be seen. Some slang words are used so it will be quite difficult if we see with family. Generally film have given focus towards the youth. What are the activities that today's generation is interested on can be seen in trailer. Films has try to express Love and friendship, Feelings and emotions, dreams and expectations, reality and struggle, desires and relationships that are the factors that affects on each and everyone life because everyone has life once not twice. For further details we have to watch the movie. As I was lucky to catch some moments when they were having shooting at Kathmandu Fun Valley. 





Thursday, August 28, 2014

Love is not a Business

Love never hurts anybody. It is something else pretending to be love which feels hurt. Unless you see this you will go on moving in the same circle again and again. Love can hide many unloving things in you. Man has been very clever, cunning, in deceiving others and in deceiving himself too. He puts beautiful labels on ugly things, he covers wounds with flowers. This is the first thing you have to go into. 

Love ordinarily is not love, it is lust. And lust is bound to feel hurt, because to desire somebody as an object is to offend. It is an insult, it is violent. When you move with lust towards somebody, how long can you pretend it is love? Something which is superficial will look like love, but scratch a little bit and hidden behind it is sheer lust. Lust is animalistic. To look at anybody with lust is to insult, humiliate, is to reduce the other person to a thing, to a commodity. No person ever likes to be used; that's the most ugly thing you can do to anybody. No person is a commodity, no person is a means towards any end. 
Love can only be true if  there is no ego hiding behind it. Otherwise love becomes only an ego trip.  It is a subtle way to dominate. And one has to be very conscious because this desire to dominate is very deep rooted. It never comes naked; it always come hidden behind beautiful garments, ornaments. 

Husband say they love their wives, but it is just domination. They are jealous, so possessive, how can they love be loving? Wives go on saying they love their husband, but twenty four hours they are creating hell; in every possible way they are reducing the husband to something ugly.

Love in its purest form is a sharing of joy. It asks nothing in return, it expects nothing; hence how can you feel hurt? When you don't expect, there is no possibility of being hurt. Then whatsoever comes is good; if nothing comes, that too is good. Your joy was to give, not to get. Then one can love from thousands of miles away; there is no need to be physically present even. 

Fear is never love and love is  never afraid. There is nothing to lose for love. Why should love be afraid? Love only gives. Fear and love never exist together; they cannot. Fear is just the opposite of Love. 
OSHO


MONEY CAN'T BUY U LOVE PART-II


So in old age, when he had all the money in the world a man can have, he established the Nobel prize. It is given as a peace award-by a man who earned the money by war! Whoever is working for peace receives a Nobel prize. It is given for great scientific inventions, great artistic, creative inventions. 


And with the Nobel prize comes big money- right now it is near about two hundred and fifty thousand dollars with it; and it goes on increasing because money goes on becoming less and less valuable. And such a fortune that man must have create that all these Nobel prizes that are distributed every year are given only out of the interest. The basic money remains intact, will remain intact forever. Every year so much interest accumulates that you can give twenty Nobel prizes. 

All charitable work is really an effort to wash your guilt literally. When Pontius Pilate ordered the crucifixion of Jesus, the first thing he did was to wash his hand dirty, why should you wash your hands? It is something significant : he is feeling guilty. It look two thousand years for a man to understand this, because for two thousand years nobody even mentioned or bothered to comment on why Pontius Pilate washed his hands. It was Sigmund Freud who found out that the people who are feeling guilty start washing their hands. It is symbolic...as if their hands are full of blood.



So if you have money. it creates guilt. One way is to wash your hands by helping charitable institutions, and this is exploited by the religions. They are exploiting your guilt, but they go on buttressing your ego, saying you are doing great spiritual work. It is nothing to do with spirituality; it is just that they are trying to console the criminals. 

The first way is what religions have been doing. The other is that the man feels so guilty that either he goes ad or commits suicide. His own existence become just anguish. Each breath becomes heavy. And the strange things is that he has worked his whole life to attain all this money, because the society provokes the desirre, the ambition to be rich, to be powerful. And money does bring power, it can purchase everything excepts those few things which cannot be purchased by it. But nobody bothers about those things. 
OSHO

NEPALI GIRL RAPED IN INDIA

Capital city of India: New Delhi
From report of 2013 1600 women are raped 
But the case is different here. A Nepali girl of age 19 is raped. She was called at Meharauli Hotel in the name of interview and was raped. Girl said that "They were drinking alcohol " while she reached there. She was raped by 6 people. She has register the case against them. 
Being Nepali we have to do something.
Nepali Government should do something for her. 

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

CHINA'S OWN OPERATING SYSTEM

China has now aimed to displace the various imported operating systems Microsoft, Google and apple with its own operating system. According to news organization of china operating system will be released within coming October. 
China and America are facing various disputes related to cyber security. So, in order to settle this last march a network was developed with coordination of network president Gi Guaugnam.

According to Gi the operating system will be first launched at desktops and gradually to laptop smart phones and other devices.
According to China's IT ministry magazine the operating system will be developed with its own app store.  Not only that much Gi also told that the new operating system will displace current imported operating system witin 2 years. "Within 3 to 5 years all the smartphone companies in China will be using new operating system" he claimed.
From May 2014 China has prohibited using Windows 8 and other upgraded version. Gi sated "Prohibition on other operating system will be the promotion for own's operating system. But investment of IT ministry for development of operating system is vital."
He added "its an opportunity to compute with microsoft, google and apple."

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

MONEY CAN'T BUY YOU LOVE-I

Money is a loaded subject for the simple reason that we have not been able to work out a sane system in which money can be a servant to the whole humanity, and not the master of a few greedy people.

Money is a loaded subject because man's psychology is full of greed; otherwise money is a simple means of exchanging things, a perfect means. There is nothing wrong in it, but the way we have worked it out, everything seems to be wrong in it. 
If you don't have money, you are condemned; your whole life is a curse, and your whole life you are trying to have money by any means. 

If you have money it does not change the basic things: you want more, and there is no end to wanting more. And when finally you have too much money- although it is not enough, it is never enough, but it is more than anybody else has-then you start feeling guilty, because the means that you have used to accumulate the money are ugly, inhuman, violent. You have been exploiting, you have been sucking the blood of people. you have been a parasite. So now you have got the money but it reminds you of all the crimes that you have committed in gaining it
That creates two kind of people: one who starts donating to charitable institutions to get rid of guilt. They are doing "good work" they are doing "God's work". They are opening hospitals and schools. All they are doing is trying somehow not to go mad because of the feeling of guilt. All your hospitals and all your schools and colleges and all your charitable institutions are outcomes of guilty people. 

For example, the Noble prize was founded by a man who earned money in the first world war by creating all kinds of destructive bombs, machines. The first world war was fought using the means supplied by Mr.Nobel. and he earned such a huge amount of money...Both the parties were getting war material from the same source; he was the only person who was creating war materials on a vast scale. So whoever was killed, was killed by him. It does not matter whether he belonged to this side or to that side; whoever was killed was killed by his bombs. 

Osho

Traffic Management problem.

We are rich in various sectors. But our weakness improper management of traffic system. If it rains we want to reach home fast but what happens is we have to stay waiting in the rain when traffic would open and move on. When this problem will be solved.

NEPAL'S PRIDE: OUR IDENTIFICATION


                      
My country My Pride:
One of my friend asked me How can u represent your country. I didn't say anything i just told him to look my site. I felt proud that we can represent our country through various means. Our cultural heritages, our national things and our unique and bravery history. 
We are very happy that we are rich in culture, climate and geographical sectors. People travel various places country to country in search of different climates flora and fauna. We are very happy to say that we are rich in such things. 


Sunday, August 24, 2014

Nepali Can make country also not only flag. They are in search of right time

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We are proud to be Nepali. We united to make Flag. Our Flag has its own importance. The real meaning of our flag is: As long as The Sun and Moon Shines on The Sky our country NEPAL remains as a intact and free country. 

Today we united for flag. Now we have to make our country popular. If we can make flag we can make our country. Nepali can make but all the situation is disturbed here by the political situation. Nepali are in search of a good patriotic leader. The main issue not for the development over here is because of corruption. We are the power of the country. All we have to do is unite.
We are famous for as the birth place of Lord Gautam Buddha, who is also know as the Light of Asia. Not only that we have the highest peak of the world known as Mount Everest. 






Friday, August 22, 2014

Pay Vat Not only To Government But to Your life also

I wrote it as I listen to Dr. yogi Vikashananda. He is one of the great philosopher. I don't know anything compared to him but I have just tried to extended his views in my words.
Vision
Imagine that you are going to have a slice of lemon within 5 minutes. What happens to your mouth? Your mouth will be full of water. Why is it so?
All of us know lemon contains citric acid. When we imagined lemon our mind prepared our body to secrete various chemicals. When that chemicals are secreted our mouth is full of water. What our mind did mind? Our mind controlled the body saying that Be ready to digest lemon. So for the digestion of that lemon saliva is produced in mouth.
What I want to say is that our life is also like imagining lemon.  Instead of imagining lemon if we imagine our future then our body start secreting various chemicals for fulfilment of our vision.
If we want to be rich man in future we have to visualize about being rich man. Visualization helps us on producing chemical for being rich man. If we visualize today for 5 minutes our body secretes few amount of chemical if we go on repeating this process daily amount of chemical goes on increasing and we can reach to our goals or visualization in less time.
Action
Next is the action. In order to be a rich man we have to gain knowledge. Knowledge is power. For action if we have to go to abroad for further study we have to go. Nothing happens until and unless we are into action. I visualized to be a doctor and if I don't join any classes or conduct any research for my study can I be Doctor? Never. For that I have to do various action like choosing the best college, institutions.
Time
Time and Tide waits for none. A winner is a looser who never quits. There is nothing impossible. Never quit to your visualization just add few time to it. Human being give birth to their off springs at the time of 7 to 9 months. Keep in mind of the time. Can they give birth at the time of 5 months? It's Impossible. But we know birth of off spring is possible. From this we can formulate a formula.
Giving birth to offspring is possible in Time= 9 months
If we deducted the time to 5 months then same possibility become=Impossible.
what is the conclusion?
Impossible=Possible-Time
Possible=Impossible +Time
Some people may criticize here that if it is so then I visualized to be Prime Minister of Nepal is it impossible. I just told u add time there this life time may be insufficient so just add your next life time. Its sure that your visualization can take u there to your destination of becoming prime minister.

So, this is the formula we derived here from time to possible and impossible. Further formula VAT is also derived here from Visualization/Vision, Action Time.

Thursday, August 21, 2014

UNFAIRNESS OF FAIRNESS CREAM

I thank my friend Sabnam Thapa. She gave me idea to write about it. Her presentation about this topic helped me to  elaborate more and  I have also used pictures which she has used. 

We are using fairness cream why? 

One of the reasons is we want to be white. Look at the picture. How advertisement plays role in the name of being white skin. Is it possible. Never. So why we are spending our money on buying such useless products.

Such Fairness Cream Contains bleaching agents, skin lightening steroids, Hydroquinone, kojic acid etc. 

We believe that fairness cream can bring changes on us. In our society people with fair skin are viewed as a sign of sophistication, purity, and cleanliness. Not only that much if we see history form early as 770-476 BC poems are being written praising women's fairness. Medicines for white skins are made by Chinese doctors,  Hindu Rishis. White skin has played the role of class in western countries. White people and black ones. 

If we see in our Asia Fairness is regarded as benchmark for beauty. $18 billion is used in Fairness creams. What do marketers do they have targeted our market best for selling their products. As I searched in Internet and found out that fairness cream was first introduced in 1960s. Fair and Lovely was introduced in 1976.

 Look how we are being fool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Analysing the use of fairness cream statical data searched on internet showed that Fairness has taken the market of US $ 13 billion. Among that 71% of the skin care market in China. The Skin-Lightening cream market alone is worth US$432 in India. 4 out of 10 people in Hong Kong, Malaysia, Philippines, South Korea and Taiwan use fairness cream

Production of such kind of product is increasing why because we think that "Fair is beautiful" as well as fair skin is seen as power. But in reality nothing is true so lets say no to Fairness creams. We are beautiful by nature and powerful also. 




Wednesday, August 20, 2014

LG G3 Review in Nepal


In context to Nepal it has been few days LG G3 has arrived. As I have seen advertisement on 15 August 2014 on HELLO SUKRABAR. I have attached its picture also. It was witten 3 GB of RAM in the advertisment as I claimed for it they told it was printing mistake. And in my opinion its not printing mistake its blunder mistake. Its a well planned mistake of a reputed multinational Company LG in order to attract customers as well as to increase sales promotion.
Looks is nice. Easy to handle. 5.5 inch screen. Brightness is ok. Sound is also good. Battery is not excellent but in average satisfactory compared to other smart phones. 
I saw some videos in youtube and came to know wireless charger and extra battery is unavailable in Nepal. 
I found opera mini apps too small in size. Keyboard size can be increased but the key block remains as it is. 
Groilla 3 screen and its smoothness is newness here.

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