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Thursday, August 28, 2014

Love is not a Business

Love never hurts anybody. It is something else pretending to be love which feels hurt. Unless you see this you will go on moving in the same circle again and again. Love can hide many unloving things in you. Man has been very clever, cunning, in deceiving others and in deceiving himself too. He puts beautiful labels on ugly things, he covers wounds with flowers. This is the first thing you have to go into. 

Love ordinarily is not love, it is lust. And lust is bound to feel hurt, because to desire somebody as an object is to offend. It is an insult, it is violent. When you move with lust towards somebody, how long can you pretend it is love? Something which is superficial will look like love, but scratch a little bit and hidden behind it is sheer lust. Lust is animalistic. To look at anybody with lust is to insult, humiliate, is to reduce the other person to a thing, to a commodity. No person ever likes to be used; that's the most ugly thing you can do to anybody. No person is a commodity, no person is a means towards any end. 
Love can only be true if  there is no ego hiding behind it. Otherwise love becomes only an ego trip.  It is a subtle way to dominate. And one has to be very conscious because this desire to dominate is very deep rooted. It never comes naked; it always come hidden behind beautiful garments, ornaments. 

Husband say they love their wives, but it is just domination. They are jealous, so possessive, how can they love be loving? Wives go on saying they love their husband, but twenty four hours they are creating hell; in every possible way they are reducing the husband to something ugly.

Love in its purest form is a sharing of joy. It asks nothing in return, it expects nothing; hence how can you feel hurt? When you don't expect, there is no possibility of being hurt. Then whatsoever comes is good; if nothing comes, that too is good. Your joy was to give, not to get. Then one can love from thousands of miles away; there is no need to be physically present even. 

Fear is never love and love is  never afraid. There is nothing to lose for love. Why should love be afraid? Love only gives. Fear and love never exist together; they cannot. Fear is just the opposite of Love. 
OSHO


MONEY CAN'T BUY U LOVE PART-II


So in old age, when he had all the money in the world a man can have, he established the Nobel prize. It is given as a peace award-by a man who earned the money by war! Whoever is working for peace receives a Nobel prize. It is given for great scientific inventions, great artistic, creative inventions. 


And with the Nobel prize comes big money- right now it is near about two hundred and fifty thousand dollars with it; and it goes on increasing because money goes on becoming less and less valuable. And such a fortune that man must have create that all these Nobel prizes that are distributed every year are given only out of the interest. The basic money remains intact, will remain intact forever. Every year so much interest accumulates that you can give twenty Nobel prizes. 

All charitable work is really an effort to wash your guilt literally. When Pontius Pilate ordered the crucifixion of Jesus, the first thing he did was to wash his hand dirty, why should you wash your hands? It is something significant : he is feeling guilty. It look two thousand years for a man to understand this, because for two thousand years nobody even mentioned or bothered to comment on why Pontius Pilate washed his hands. It was Sigmund Freud who found out that the people who are feeling guilty start washing their hands. It is symbolic...as if their hands are full of blood.



So if you have money. it creates guilt. One way is to wash your hands by helping charitable institutions, and this is exploited by the religions. They are exploiting your guilt, but they go on buttressing your ego, saying you are doing great spiritual work. It is nothing to do with spirituality; it is just that they are trying to console the criminals. 

The first way is what religions have been doing. The other is that the man feels so guilty that either he goes ad or commits suicide. His own existence become just anguish. Each breath becomes heavy. And the strange things is that he has worked his whole life to attain all this money, because the society provokes the desirre, the ambition to be rich, to be powerful. And money does bring power, it can purchase everything excepts those few things which cannot be purchased by it. But nobody bothers about those things. 
OSHO

NEPALI GIRL RAPED IN INDIA

Capital city of India: New Delhi
From report of 2013 1600 women are raped 
But the case is different here. A Nepali girl of age 19 is raped. She was called at Meharauli Hotel in the name of interview and was raped. Girl said that "They were drinking alcohol " while she reached there. She was raped by 6 people. She has register the case against them. 
Being Nepali we have to do something.
Nepali Government should do something for her. 

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

CHINA'S OWN OPERATING SYSTEM

China has now aimed to displace the various imported operating systems Microsoft, Google and apple with its own operating system. According to news organization of china operating system will be released within coming October. 
China and America are facing various disputes related to cyber security. So, in order to settle this last march a network was developed with coordination of network president Gi Guaugnam.

According to Gi the operating system will be first launched at desktops and gradually to laptop smart phones and other devices.
According to China's IT ministry magazine the operating system will be developed with its own app store.  Not only that much Gi also told that the new operating system will displace current imported operating system witin 2 years. "Within 3 to 5 years all the smartphone companies in China will be using new operating system" he claimed.
From May 2014 China has prohibited using Windows 8 and other upgraded version. Gi sated "Prohibition on other operating system will be the promotion for own's operating system. But investment of IT ministry for development of operating system is vital."
He added "its an opportunity to compute with microsoft, google and apple."

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

MONEY CAN'T BUY YOU LOVE-I

Money is a loaded subject for the simple reason that we have not been able to work out a sane system in which money can be a servant to the whole humanity, and not the master of a few greedy people.

Money is a loaded subject because man's psychology is full of greed; otherwise money is a simple means of exchanging things, a perfect means. There is nothing wrong in it, but the way we have worked it out, everything seems to be wrong in it. 
If you don't have money, you are condemned; your whole life is a curse, and your whole life you are trying to have money by any means. 

If you have money it does not change the basic things: you want more, and there is no end to wanting more. And when finally you have too much money- although it is not enough, it is never enough, but it is more than anybody else has-then you start feeling guilty, because the means that you have used to accumulate the money are ugly, inhuman, violent. You have been exploiting, you have been sucking the blood of people. you have been a parasite. So now you have got the money but it reminds you of all the crimes that you have committed in gaining it
That creates two kind of people: one who starts donating to charitable institutions to get rid of guilt. They are doing "good work" they are doing "God's work". They are opening hospitals and schools. All they are doing is trying somehow not to go mad because of the feeling of guilt. All your hospitals and all your schools and colleges and all your charitable institutions are outcomes of guilty people. 

For example, the Noble prize was founded by a man who earned money in the first world war by creating all kinds of destructive bombs, machines. The first world war was fought using the means supplied by Mr.Nobel. and he earned such a huge amount of money...Both the parties were getting war material from the same source; he was the only person who was creating war materials on a vast scale. So whoever was killed, was killed by him. It does not matter whether he belonged to this side or to that side; whoever was killed was killed by his bombs. 

Osho

Traffic Management problem.

We are rich in various sectors. But our weakness improper management of traffic system. If it rains we want to reach home fast but what happens is we have to stay waiting in the rain when traffic would open and move on. When this problem will be solved.

NEPAL'S PRIDE: OUR IDENTIFICATION


                      
My country My Pride:
One of my friend asked me How can u represent your country. I didn't say anything i just told him to look my site. I felt proud that we can represent our country through various means. Our cultural heritages, our national things and our unique and bravery history. 
We are very happy that we are rich in culture, climate and geographical sectors. People travel various places country to country in search of different climates flora and fauna. We are very happy to say that we are rich in such things. 


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