BIRTH- BABY(INFANT)-CHILD-ADULT-MAN-OLD- DEATH

As usual I went to office. Today its Monday and I will be busy this day. While  I was working I saw a newspaper named HIMAL and it was a fresh copy. At first I thought of just to look at the headlines but when my eyes caught a article of old people I started reading. I went on reading and found out that today's generation is forgetting their duties towards parents. Nepalese society is upgrading from joint family to single family. In this scenario old parents are thrown out whereas the children are being hunted by lonliness.

Life is a cycle of birth to death. There are different phases, child, adult, man and old age. Parents give birth to us and spend their whole life to bring us up. We are forgetting our duties towards them. I read an example. An old person name Shambhu Prasad Acharaya (74) spend all his life for improvement of the children. The loan he has taken for the marriage ceremony of his children he cleared it from his retired money. His son convinced him to buy a new house by selling the old one but they bought only land and house hasn't been built yet. If they built house they have to keep their parents so they aren't building house.
From above example we can know parent in the old age are being burden. Are they really burden? If we don't care them who will care them?

Our parents gives birth to us. They help us to grow up. After certain time we also give birth to child. If we treat our parents negatively the child also grabs the same kind of tradition. In such condition how can we except a good response from our child as we have shown them our response towards our parents. They will catch the trend how to treat the old age parents in the same way we are treating our parents now. In future, in our old age if we want to be treated nicely we have to treat our parents nicely now.

Our parents are experienced than us. When they are  at house although they cannot do any hard work they can give the child moral lesson and help them develop their habits. The children shouldn't face the problem of   loneliness as they will be touch with their grand parents. Grand parents will be there to look after them.

There has bee a drastic change in life style of Nepalease Society. Today's generation doesn't want to take care of the old parents. Both the husband and wife works there is no time for parents. They don't have enough time to look after their children so they leave their children to the kinder garden school and go to work. If we don't take out some of our time towards our family there occurs a big gap and we shouldn't make such gap. Old parents are our heritage. We should respect them preserve them. 

Let's take first step

Our environment is polluting day by day. If we aren't conscious now we can't do anything further. A fresh environment help us to be healthy. Although lots of rules and regulation has been made to control the pollution is being very hard to control. Until and unless we are not aware its very hard to control. The feeling should arise from heart to control pollution. One of the pollution in our country is of plastics. Every goods that are of plastic are very cheap so we buy lots of plastics utensil in our daily life. 

Let's degrade the using of plastic day by day. Using plastics good is ok but using plastics for carrying goods are polluting environment badly. People hesitate to use the bag again and again so let's use the paper bag and  bag of  cotton or other types which can be reused or recycled. 

Let's use the thing in least manner. We have to use good but we have to use it in such a manner that we can derive maximum satisfaction from that goods. Such type of behaviour helps us to use the good in optimum way. The least use of resources produces least wastage. So the pollution can be controlled. 

Wastage also can be used in different ways. Wastage are of two types one can be decomposed and another type can't be decomposed. We can use the decomposed type as a fertilizer and we can recycle the another type which can't be decomposed. We can reduce the wastage in this way. 

I request all the drivers not to use the horns unnecessarily thias causes the sound pollution. I am surprised why people don't uderstand that if there was way every vehicle would pass. I hope no one wishes to be in traffic jam making their head hot.  

Let's take a first step now by reducing the use of plastics and also reduce the use of horns when it is not necessary to use. 

Being Positive

When your attitude is negative how can any one find positiveness on you. You never look the things positively. I remember a quote-"person sees the object not as the object is but sees the object as he/she is". I read a book with example of negative thought and example goes like this.

For the first time a person created a steam engine ship. Negative thinker criticized it won't run. They were looking at the ship. When the ship started to run they criticized it won't stop. Such people are only in the aim to criticized and they can't do anything creative but they can create lots of ideas just to criticize.

It's very hard to deal with such kind of persons. My boss is also of same kind. He never praise for the work we have done. He always searches for our mistakes in order to scolds us. If we want to find the mistakes in any one then its very easy to find but if we find that mistakes and suggest him/her to correct by praising his/her works he/she  would definately make improvement in their work.

Another thing is  I can neither change my boss nor my job  but the thing I change is myself so I am trying to be positive. My friend suggested me that Spending time with such kind of person is waste of time. But I am not wasting my time I am experiencing how to treat with such kind of person so that again in future if I met such kind of person I can deal with him/her easily. Life teaches us many thing in many ways. I learned that we should take our work or any thing in such way that we can enjoy from it. Our work is also done and feeling of bore also doesn't last long. 

Learning Is Earning

Earning doesn't means only to earn money. I believe that Learning is Earning. Like Mahatma Gandhi said-"Only a loaf of bread can talk with a hungry man." . Similarly, I also believe that a man with hunger of learning can earn many thing.  I try to learn everything and don't wanna miss anything so that I can gain at least some knowledge. Who knows that the thing u know now can be utilized in future in various ways. I don't know how to play card but if I show some interest and wanna know about it I can do that. So, if any one asks me do u know the specific cards name game  I can proudly say that I know but if I don't know then I have to say I don't know. But I wanna a know so that I can help others and the satisfaction is gained  when I help other. Actually I got this lesson from my uncle. What's on your way just grab it don't look its bad or good.Its' your knowledge, your learning power to separate either it's good or bad. So, Learning is never harmful. Even we say that this people is useless but he is being used as an example for useless so no thing and no one is useless so grab the knowledge. Opportunity knocks at the door once.

Happy Guru Purnima

Today is the special Day called “Guru Purnima”. This is the important day in our culture. The word ‘Guru’ is formed by the combination of two words ‘Gu’ and ‘Ru’. In Sanskrit Language Gu means darkness and Ru means the person who has the power to remove that darkness. We celebrate this day with our Gurus.

          In ancient time there were no schools like they are available these days. There used to be school called ‘Pathasala’ where guru used to teach the lesson in practical way. So in rememberance of those gurus this day is celebrated.

          Today I also got up in the morning, wash my face and went to visit Guru. I went to taking some sweet and spend some of my timen with him.

          Nowadays, in school they celebrate it as teachers’ day because they are also considered as the person who can remove darkness. I got surprised why there is a red tika on everyone’s face today and remembered that today was the Special Day ‘Guru Purnima.’ Happy Guru Purnima

Congratulation Spain

Actually I am not too fond of football but i like watching it and also spend some of my time. Euro cup was running but it was over from today. Spain showed its art through its goal against Italy. But Italy was also good. I believe that some time luck have to favor us and Italy was not lucky enough for that. Any way Congratulation to Spain once again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My start

Still Life goes on anything happens no problems for life to move on. Suppose if we are in a car moving somewhere we may get the problem like, flat tyres, shortage of fuel etc. but in life although any  problem arises life goes on.
I am also trying to share some of my views through this blog. I'm a man with simple though and living nowadays I go to college early in the morning and rest of the day passes in office.