Get Your life Partner

Tuesday, September 5, 2023

What is the right age for Marriage? Bihebari's Experience.



Lots of People revolve around this question. What is the right age to get married? So what's your Opinion please do Comment below.

Normally people used to get married at the age of 9 to 11 at our grandparent's era. But now this system is not into existence. Gradually age of getting married start to increase and people start getting married at the age of 18 to 21. This lateness is increasing day by day and people are getting married in high age. Today I am going to explore my experience as a founder of Bihebari Marriage Bureau what will be the right age for marriage.

We belong to Hindu Society let's say Nepali Society. A boy gets his education up to age of 21-25 After educational qualification he has pressure to search for a better job so that he can look after family. But in case of a girl, she is not prohibited for education rather she is also not in any kind of pressure that she should look after the family and get a better job. A boy will marry her, and he will look after her that's what our Nepali Society has made assumptions regarding a boy and a girl. 

When we start taking about marriage then come the subject of reproduction as well. If our reproductive organs are not matured enough to give birth only after the age of 20. So, there was slogan in Nepali Society "Bihebari bis barsh pari" i.e. "विहेवारी २० वर्ष पारी".  Which states that marriage should be done only when you are above 20.  Many doctors and Researchers also tell us that both girl and boy should get married within 21-30 age. Moreover, in case of girls if a girl gives birth to her child withing the age gap of 21-30 that's the best age, increase in age decreases the fertility rate says the expert. To some extent same case is true for boys as well. 

As per my experience some people are getting married at the age of 21, 25, 30, 35, whereas some at the age of 28, 48, 68. Yes, reproduction case may affect but the main thing is your happiness and your well-being. You should be above 20 to get married is the primary factor whereas in Secondary Factor you have to be independent as well as you should be well prepared both mentally and physically in order to get married. If you aren't prepared well then, your life after marriage will be me more complicated. So, this is the right age or right time to get married. 


Monday, November 28, 2022

Does Looks Matters in Marriage Life? Bihebari Experience Revealed.

Garima's Parents were searching for a good life partner to her daughter. It was an arrange marriage. So, parents had finalized a guy. But the guy didn't accept her because she was average in looks. She was really disappointed by the incident. Since she was struggling for her better job in her life. Boy's rejection made her loose her confidence. But she focused on her career, and she got opportunity in USA and got citizenship over there.

Later on, that guys parents find out her progress. They came to visit her with lots of apologies they again asked Garima's hand for their son. To my Suprise girl accept the proposal. 

This incident made me feel that looks doesn't matter but success, money do matters. 

Similarly, some people say that it's pointless.

Some beautiful girls are getting married to not so attractive men but still they are happy in their life. 

some say that my uncle is tall, handsome but he is married to dark, uglier girl and still they are happy. 

Ravi shares his experience with us

I am handsome guy and I earn more than Rs. 150K per month. I was looking for suitable life partner for me and it was totally arranged marriage. What I found is that all girl who look beautiful are full of demands like good house, guy should have good family background, no kinds of loans and so on. This incident made me to see girls with hated point of view. One of another findings is that these types of girls and their parents are searching for a guy who is well settled at the age of 28, and that is not possible, I guess. 

Then I met a girl with Average looks. She was very positive and ready to accept all my middle-class conditions. She told me that it our new relationship and we have to grow it together. I am ready to face all the situations and difficulties with you. At first, I was a bit disappointed why that earlier girls aren't like her. I got married with her. 

These days I earn Rs 170K per months whereas she earns Rs85K per month. We are listening to one another's problem and growing up together in happiness. And this is what we all need in life, I think. 

Main theme is looks doesn't matter much these days. What they look is for long run future security like age, family wealth etc. Especially many girls look for 2-3 years of age gap, and they reject lots of decent, well educated, rich boys even they find their future to be secured. 


  

Thursday, November 3, 2022

Bihebari Experinces

 I am IT manager of Bihebari and I am dealing with lots of people. In this blog I want to share various case that we have been dealing with. I will try my best to make you understand. 

Bihebari Marriage Bureau was conceptualized at 2018 were as it was officially inaugurated and legalized in December 2019. We have helped lots of people and we will be helping others as well. 

Since its a new concept in Nepal people are feeling difficulties to represent themselves as a candidate for marriage. Another group of people think that people that are available via online means are supposed to be fake. Next group thinks that people visit such marriage bureaus if they have any kind of defect, or they are handicapped or physically disabled. 

Constant thing in life is change. We have to change ourselves with time. As new generations are popping up with new ideas and concept. We Bihebari Marriage Bureaus is also trying to change the tradition method of searching life partner. 

In search of better job, carrier and many more facilities people are out of their countries, and they are unable to find their life partner. So, if you are also in search of life partner then Do remember Bihebari Marriage Bureau. We are here to serve you.  

We have lots of single boys and girls as well as divorced and widow who are searching someone as their life partner. 



Sunday, June 26, 2022

After Marriage Case-2

One of the problem in Marriage is Sexual problem as well. No negative comment plz.

I am 27 years old female my problem is like this.

Hello and namaste 

Yo problem mero husband ko ho but wuha lai vanda malai badi pir parxa.

Mero bihe vayeko 3 yrs vayo and hami bich 2 month ma ekpatak matra sex hunxa. Mero friend circle pni sabai married ho ra uniharu sanga kura huda tha paauxu uniharu ko  once/ twice a week intercourse hunxa re…Ma sex addict haina but I guess hamro sexual relation healthy xaina. Husband wife ko relation ramro banauna sex ko pni thulo vumika hunxa. But hamro sexual relation ramro xaina . Mero husband lai testo emotion nae aaudaina.  2 mahina ma ekpatak emotion aayera sex garda pni sperm ejaculate hunae sakdaina. Hand le masturbate garesi matra discharge hunxa. Yo bahek hamro aru relation ekdam ramro xa. We do love each other.Feri baira koi kt sanga chakkar hola husband ko vannu hola comment ma, testo pni xaina. Dr lai check up garauda Dr le husband lai tapai aafai vitra bata initiate huna parxa vanxa. But kei Sudhar vako xaina . K garne hola, kasailai kura share garna pni sakeko xaina so confession garna aayeko .


 Hajur haru kasailai yo related kei idea xa vane  Please help garnu hola 🙏🙏

Saturday, June 25, 2022

Life After Marriage- Case I

 This is a case of a girl who is living in Australia and what is she feeling after her marriage

Female 25
Goldcoast
I wish i could walk away from your life
Its been 2years since we got married, 1year date garera bihe gareko ho. Jhagda huncha harek husband wife ma hamro ni huncha, ma ni kich kiche chu thacha malai tara maile hajurlai kaile naramro word use gareko chaina hajurlai ni thacha yo kura tara ajkal hajurle malai sabai vanera sakisaknu vacha(rough word) kei baaki chaina ani you are losing interest on me malai feel vako cha yo kura.
Harek choti sanai kura ma nai jhagda vaye paani kasto budi parecha thukkkka vannuhuncha ani, ta tira gara le taneko ho malai vannuvayo tyo din kassam ekdam hurt vathyo. Maya lagdena ra mero hajurlai vanda you were numb k jhan kasto layo hola sochnu hajurle. Everytime hajurle malai pakhhey vannuhuncha there are so many things k maile ya vanera sakdena, kasto kasto keti pauthey hola esto sanga aayera fasey kk ho kk vannuncha. Ajkal ta attti vayera hajhrle j vaneni kei boldena aah, naai matra vanna thalechu harek din tyo sabai kura sunna maan chaina malai.

 

Thursday, September 24, 2020

What’s the Purpose of Testing Corona

 


 

According to Health Ministry spoke person Dr. Jageshowr Gautam:- In order to identify Corona rupees 1 lakh 7 thousand is spent. On the basis of his statement daily on an average 10 thousand people are being tested and among them 1 thousand are resulted as positive. If we see this data daily rupees 1 Core 70 lakh is being spent. This is just an assumption. In addition to this in the name of constructing isolation, quarantine; importing ventilators and other medical equipment huge expenses are being made. But what’s the purpose such expenditure?

Are infected people being monitored with proper management? Is there treatment? Is there plenty of isolation and quarantine center? Is there Vaccine? Are there enough ICU and Ventilators? Is there environment for infected person to feel secure? Nothing is there then why are we making such unnecessary expenses that doesn’t lead us to any permanent solution.

Has any country discovered its Medicine and started treatment? Has any Country made masks and sanitizers that would block corona and protect us? If sanitizers and mask would block corona then why people all around the world are rowing their boat to find its solution. Why are people pressurized to wear mask and use sanitizer if it is not successful on resisting. I wonder how long will this kind of situation exist. It’s just a well-planned game to utilize tax paid by us to them. It’s a well-planned strategy of so called organization to bring economic instability. In another word we can describe it as a loot to capture nation’s treasury.

If lock down would stop from being infected then why prisoners are suffering? How long can you lock anyone inside home, one month one year? Cause of death: suicide, long-term disease, kidney fail, tuberculosis is clear. In spite of its clearness what’s the justification for testing corona? What’s the reason for declaring their death as corona? Can anyone in our country show a patient who died from corona; I mean only from Corona? These kind of scenario is developing a feeling in all human that “There is only a disease called corona in this world?” This is also one of the reason why most of the people are compelled to death.

Whatever the patient is suffering from he has to go through corona testing phase and the patient who is not suffering from corona also has to wait for the result. This kind of system is affecting those patients who have nothing to do with corona. Due to one patients hundreds are affected without any reason and any cause. In order to raise the number of Corona casualties it is being shown that there isn’t any other condition where people die; people die only of Corona. If any heart attack patient enters to the hospital corona testing is important than that of his heart treatment. People who are suffering from cancer, tuberculosis or any other are forced for corona test. It looks as if government is trying to gain benefits like donations, international help in the name of corona. In my opinion WHO has been successful to create terror in poor countries with the assurance of cooperation adapting for their own shake. If any Medicine or vaccines are made then WHO may not permit or whoever makes it should take the permission of WHO, is the clear indication of WHO’s monopoly.

This virus is not as powerful as tuberculosis, cancer, cholera. It is a normal virus whose mortality rate is even less than 1%. People made it as a pandemic and ruling as per their adaptation and benefits. They made it as their way of earning and living. CORONA pandemic is bearing all the excuses that government isn’t able to handle. This virus is not a disease but it’s becoming a way of earning for employee working under central, regional and local level.  People who are responsible in prevention got opportunity to make enact expenses. Country is bankrupted. Huge invested sector is collapsed. Unemployment situation is beyond the imagination. If we see graph minor to major all business organizations are declining towards depression.  Agriculture sector is diminishing. All educational sector and Academic session is hopscotch. All private hospitals and condition of health workers is becoming miserable day by day. Transportation, Industry and factory aren’t in the state of rising. Situation of tourism industry is terrible. What leaders have thought about it?

It seems as if due to anonymous 1 thousand casualties’ government slain 100 thousands. In our country people are dying more of suicide rather than that of corona. Millions of citizens are on the state starvation, millions of citizens are fighting against mental problems, Millions of citizens are bankrupted, Millions of citizens are misguided, Millions of citizens are compelled to change their profession, and Millions of citizens are losing their live hood. Is it justified to overrule millions of people in the name of lock down? Has Government thought about this?

If we go in this way we won’t get any economic prosperity rather we will be under depression. If we want to rise in every sector my suggestion is to provide freedom to all people and let them work in their own manners but by maintaining basic health circumstances and health criteria. We have been watching many pitiful stories in social media. Feel their emotions, feel their sorrow.

I have read article on social media face book. On the basis of that I wrote this.

Wednesday, September 23, 2020

Want to be Healthy: Follow and Walk with rule of Nature.



Do we know why days are long in summer and shorts in winter? We can see sun rises around 05:00 am and sets 06:50 pm during summer. Similarly, during winter time is 06:05 am and 05:05 pm. This time frame suggest us that we have to get up early during summer and late during winter. If we follow the certain made by nature then there’s less chance of being unhealthy. So, if you Want to be healthy: Follow and Walk with rule of Nature.

BASIC RULES

We call ourselves smart but our daily lifestyle starts with Phone that is SMART. Nature says get up early, do yoga, exercises keep yourself refresh but what we do we move our hand first rather than our eyes in order to snooze alarm. Once our eyes get open we start to scroll our news feed rather than doing yoga and exercise. Then how can we be healthy? There wasn’t any means of transportation. Walking was the only way to go from here to there. Similarly, Knowingly or unknowingly our ancestors used to get up early and work in the cultivation field. So, both walking and working became their exercise which made them fit and fine.

Our agriculture system uses insecticides and pesticides for more production. Instead of using natural fertilizers chemical fertilizers are being used. Use of such fertilizers not only harm in growth of crops but also on the fruits they blooms. When we consume such fruits and vegetables then we are also indirectly affected by it. Our ancestors used wastage of domestic animals as natural fertilizers. That’s also one of the reasons why they used to be healthy.

We are in hurry to reach our office as soon as we finish our break fast. So we choose our breakfast from packets, junk foods and chemical mix foods so that we can save more time and in the name of saving time we are not caring about health. Our office is located in such place where sun rarely visits. Reason behind increment in VITAMIN D deficiency cases is deprived of sunlight. Sunlight is the only way of consuming VITAMIN D which nature has provided us for free.

Our body secrete hormone for our sleep. When it get dark our body realizes and starts to secrete. But we spent almost most of our time in bright area. So, our brain gets confuse when to secrete sleeping hormone. Fluctuation in this hormone disturbs our sleep. “Six hour sleep is necessary” almost people say that but Enough sleep is necessary. Enough sleep here refers to how deep sleep is not how long. In order to get such good and sound sleep we have to step with nature.

If we change our lifestyle as per nature then 95% of us will be healthy. We need to change our eating pattern, we need to change our exercise pattern. Not only this much we should flow with the wave of Nature. Instead of changing our lifestyle we are depending on medicine.

Please follow these safety measures when BIHEBARI gives you someone unknown.

When talking to someone online, especially if you've met them on a platform like Bihebari, it's important to prioritize your safety....